tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2676903776300189961.post6052783682990619515..comments2023-02-16T08:03:44.043-05:00Comments on Fathers and Families <br> <i>The new science of fatherhood</i>: Child Support: How much is too much?Paul Raeburnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06850931965720154814noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2676903776300189961.post-81024671021359862442009-02-08T11:10:00.000-05:002009-02-08T11:10:00.000-05:00When attorney's and judges that were trained to de...When attorney's and judges that were trained to deal with criminals stop villifying innocent people, who are somehow no longer good enough for their partner the rangling, games, and fraud will come to a halt. I agree, relationships were not meant for the courts to be involved in. There are guidelines in many states, but they are simply not being followed due to Judicial Indiscretion and biased. If they were followed my ex would have had to pay me supportive allimony for putting her through college. Even if I hadn't these attorney's could have very easily used the principal of Equitable Distribution that is supposed to be in play in No Fault Divorce States. They all simply choose to create as much fighting as possible to line their pockets at $300 an hour. Their are some people pushing for shared parenting, but the political kickbacks from special interests prevent this from happening through fraud in the system. No due process. Judges only hearing what the two attorney's have decided they will hear under the table. Kids need two parents, which requires two homes. Kids need to spend time with each parent equally. All situations should call for week to week, Rotating Custody. When false allegations are broght forth as a divorce ploy, which is almost 100% of the time it should be completely ignored unless it can be proven, beyond the shadow of a doubt that either parent is uncapable of being a parent. Many father's I know foster their children's welfare very well, and in many cases very respectably protect their children's welfare in school and in the world as they grow up. <BR/><BR/>The problem is that in certain Jurisdictions we have groups that are still fighting for equal rights. Certain groups have equal rights but want something more as payback for what past generations may have done to hold them down. This kind of political display in Federally Subsidized State Courts sometimes goes well beyond the scope of Our Constituational Rights. Someone like me can be looked at in the wrong light for these simple observations, but it is what it is. Unwitting people get cought up in the muck because of a belief system that portrays us all as the enemy. Prior to certain events in this country Divorce was virtuall unheard of. Now it's become a circus at the expense of our children's Mental Health. The Adversarial, Criminal Court System, which branched itself out is not recognized by our US Government as legitimate. So why should it be handling family matters?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com